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I have a lot on my chest and it only seems right to let it out....
i have lied to my man about a lot of stuff. and I'm still hiding things from him though I opened up about the truth(some of it) we've been together for 6 months now and I have had sex with another man(while we were together) and was texting several other male friends (yes they were just friends) anyways he doesn't know that I had sex with another man. And we're in too deep for me to say anything now😒. I don't wanna lose him if I tell him now. I honestly don't know what to do at this point. And I really wanna be open and honest about everything but I'm afraid I'll lose the man I love. And to make matters worse, there's this one guy(who took my virginity and my man has no clue that it was this guy) who I've known for YEARS. And I call him my brother now because of how close we are. He came to visit and live with me for like a week to see the big city. I had my bf meet the guy before he flew here and my man was completely okay with it. I had sex with him🤦🏽♀️. And my bf still communicates with him on a regular basis bc now THEY are cool. I just want to be real with everything but I may lose him. Idk how to approach this matter should I just keep hiding the truth to protect us and his feelings or should I break his heart tell him the truth and lose him forever???
please someone help🥺🤦🏽♀️
@TrevorandEmoni
Hey, I can only imagine how confused you must be at this point. You really must like the guy for you to be thinking so much about it. If you do decide to keep it yourself, your heart will grow heavier with time, but there are two sides of a coin. However, it is your choice to make, you know your boyfriend and yourself better than anyone. Take your time, think about how you are going to unfold the situation to him, or not. Yes, he may get upset about it and it will not be easy if you do decide to tell him, but like you said things are serious with him and you know how much not being able to tell him is bothering you too.
