I don’t know what to do
In 2019, I found out my girlfriend of 6 years was texting a guy from her job and they were planning to meet up at a park but I never fell though but almost 4 months later I caught her on a dating website planning to meet up with guys and she had even arranged to have sex with one of the guys but never did. I confronted her about it but she claimed she did it to try to get money from guys. I decided to continue to date her but I feel like I care about her but I also have no respect and anger towards her. I think about this every and I just don’t have the same love that I use to have for her. It’s been almost 3 years and I still haven’t gotten over it. What should I do ?
@TreyO25
I understand you lost respect when you found out what your girlfriend was doing. Even from her explanation.
You write that it's been three years. Is that okay since then? What has changed? What were you trying to do to get over it?
I’m sorry that happened to you... as a person who’s been with someone for 5 years, I would feel the same feeling of hurt too. Since you need closure, I would bring it up again but in a calm manner that you’re still hurt about the situation that ensued years ago. Other suggestions I would give is to see if you can do couple’s counseling. Have u talked to ur 7cups therapist about this yet?