I don't wish to move on.
What do I do if I don't wish to move on? Like I feel that I better live all my life single and be happy myself . Is it okay to do so? I would like to know more about this and how to cope up with breakup.
@meowcat1216
Heyy theree, Meo. Navigating life after breakups really is challenging and I'm sorry you're going through that.
Not wanting to move on is understandable, and entirely valid. Everyone copes eith breakups differently, and there's no one-size-fits-all approach to healing.
Healing is a gradual process, and it's okay to take your time. Allow yourself to grieve the relationship you had envisioned.
Embracing singlehood can be a powerful journey of self-discovery and personal growth. It gives you opportunity to nurture your interests, passions and relationship with yourself.
Society puts a pressure that everyone needs a romantic relationship to achieve happiness. But ya know what, I have an Aunt who never got married, and she never planned to. She's happy with her relationship with her friends and family, enjoys her life taking care of her nieces and nephews.
A relationship doesn't have to be a romantic one. Happiness can achieved surrounded by people you love and who matters to you and doing what you love.
Remember, this is deeply a personal matter. You do what you think is best for you and what you think is going to be make you happy.
Trust your instincts and give yourself time and space you need to heal and rediscover your strength and resilience.
And you don't have to face this all alone, you've got support right here 💜