Ignored then disappeared
I've been dating a guy for two months, we've been friends for six years. For the last month and half he's been pulling away and hasn't been making me a priority. There was a two week gap between visitsthen a three week gap... I found out he's been making time to meet his friends every few days though. I messaged him about being unhappy with things and he's been ignoring mefor a week.
I feel so worthless and I don't know what I did to deserve this. I tried really hard to make him happy, be there for him, be attentive and it doesn't matter.
He left a christmas card out from his ex saying she couldn't wait to see him for new years.
It's really hard not to take this personally. All the uncertainty and no answers is messing me.
You should talk to him face to face if not... Then just text him saying are you even ready to be dating? Or do you want to just stay as friends and you go with your ex?
I can help with some advice if u need it I've dated someone for 9months but I can help figure thing out I may not be the best but I can surely help
You haven't done anything wrong so it's important not to blame yourself. It's definitely important to communicate your feelings to him and be ready to listen to him, it may well be that he isn't ready for a relationship xx
I don't know how I'm supposed to talk to him if he's ignoring my messages. I've been thinking that I could send him a message that this isn't fair etc but that seems aggressive and I would probably fault myself for that. I've been thinking that I could just leave it for another week and if he doesn't message at all then I have my answer and it's time to move on. It's just so frustrating and it doesn't make sense.
Also, thank you all for your thoughts/help :)
