I just broke up, cause he cheated (again).
Here we go, I want to share about my story.
I got cheated on by my ex lately. This is the second time he cheat (as fas as I know). He cheated with his ex.
The first time he being caught cheated was because his ex reach out to me and told me everything. The thing is, his ex is also mentally unstable, she is obsessed with my ex to the point that she ever tried to commit su*cide. And she also seems have no friends because all of her friends are tired already to tell her not to getting back again to my ex (fyi, he also cheated couple time while he was in relationship with his ex).
Then, the I forgive him, cause I love him that much (bc my last relationship was quite “brutal” and I felt that my ex save me from that broken heart).
And then, just a month ago, his ex (the same girl) reach out to me again, she told me that they still keep contact and having an affair. When I confronted him, he admitted that. He told me that he feel guilty yet extremely happy knowing that there’s a girl who adore him that much (to the point that she tried to commit su*cide because of how much she love him).
This time, I broke up with him. I just couldnt stand it anymore. I feel like there’s no hope for him to change. But I feel empty and missed him.
Hi, I can understand the pain and relate to you.
Hugs if ok🤍
Missing the person you loved so much is normal. Your feelings are completely valid. However, now when you've decided to move on, the focus should be on you. Let's start with exploring the things you like. Things that are not attached to other people, but you. You may not feel like doing this for a long time, but what we have to do is to just keep going.
Take your time to process your emotions. And try not to stay in touch with the person if he keeps going back and forth because then he may treat you like an option. To revert to you whenever there's a problem in the relationship he's in now. But, you definitely don't deserve to be treated like an option. You might question yourself a lot of times but the key is to not give up. We're all here for you. Try to write down your thoughts everyday.
You can use this same post and reply to share your progress too. Write down the things that have been bad, that made you upset. And then write one good thing you do for yourself each day.
Don't forget that if you just survive this day, it is progress too.
I hope your heart heals. Please don't treat yourself the way others did and don't put yourself in the same space again.
Much love. ❤️🌻
@Yougotmyback thank you 🥰 your words mean a lot to me. I have tried to make myself keep busy with new sports and hobbies, I can say that I am way better than myself a month ago.
I'm so glad you're doing better. So proud of you! 🥰💕🫶
