I just need help
he broke up after 3 years and a half, I can't let go.. idk if I have to keep hope or idk, I just want him back, it's unfair
@ivy22121511 I'm sorry to hear that you're going through this difficult time. Breakups can be challenging, it's natural to experience a mix of emotions, including a desire to hold onto hope and a longing to have them back in your life. However, it's important to remember that relationships require mutual commitment and effort.
While it's okay to feel the way you do, it's also important to take care of yourself and prioritize your well-being. It can be helpful to focus on personal growth, self-care, and surrounding yourself with supportive friends and family. Give yourself time and space to heal, and try to gain perspective on what you truly deserve in a relationship.
Ultimately, the decision of whether to keep hope or move on is a personal one. It may be beneficial to seek guidance from a therapist or counsellor who can provide objective support and help you navigate your emotions. Remember, you deserve happiness and a relationship that is based on mutual love and respect.