I’m broke
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year, he said to me he was planning on proposing to me next year he messaged his dad saying I have found a girl I really love and I want to marry her his dad then replies you can marry her but you will never see your family again. They believe I’m arranged marriages so his dad is not happy with this situation. My boyfriend then broke up with me because he wants to see his family. We have both said we don’t want to to happen and he has said this is breaking him. I’m completely lost without him and I miss him so much. What do I do? His father is demanding him back to his country.
@niceWriter1019 i think letting him go will be for the best
I hope somehow, you are coping. It hurts that he had to choose between you and his family, thats unfair. Family is his blood..for sure thats really hard for him too.
Missing him is normal. You love him and used to spend time with him, youll miss those definitely. What to do? Hmmm. Start accepting the fact that he made a very difficult decision, and maybe its time to decide if you will fight for him or let go. The pain is excruciating in the beginning, yes. You want him to come back, to fight for you, to choose you instead—but its all up to him. Give him time, maybe he would figure out in the end that he still wants to be with you. But most importantly, give yourself time too—feel the pain, you cannot run from it. Face it, feel it, and accept. You cannot cry forever. Youll get through this, but the pain is really part of it, no easy way.