I mentally can't anymore
How do you get yourself to just say I've had enough? I'm tired of my husband asking me to do drugs. I'm totally against drugs. Never done it don't want to. He doesn't care at all what I say about anything. Like please stop drinking everyday. Please stop giving money to your sister who is strung out. Just stop being a jerk. Be considerate. Show empathy when I feel depressed from the way that I'm treated. Ask him i buckle our daughter in her car seat so I grab one last minute thing out the house. Or just because I'm busy doing something else. It's just so hard with 3 kids. In just constantly upset because of him. Can't even have one good day with him. Blows money on stupid stuff but then tells me I'm blowing money getting our kids take out when we have a long drive home. I just can't take it anymore
He acts like he only has one child. Nearly ignores the others. I know if I told him to leave it wouldn't make me happier. Because then I'd be on my own constantly working trying to take care of them too. My kids would be without a dad, and wouldn't understand why. The reason why is because his entire family is strung out and when we split, he'll be back to doing drugs, I don't want my kids around people like that. He's always trying to get his family to babysit when he knows that isn't going to fly with me. Just lost and feeling down all the time can barely function
@redMoon5704
It sounds like you're in a difficult situation as you're living with an incompetent husband who doesn't care about you and your kids. It's really hard to live with that kind of trauma in your life. I hope you will find a solution as soon as possible to deal with this.