I'm having a hard time dealing with a breakup
I feel like by now I should be over this relationship. I put my all into someone who just hurt me really bad, and I can't move on from it. For the past two months I've been dealing with this. She was my best friend, girlfriend, and the only one I could tell anything to. I lost all of that when I lost her. I know I won't find love like that ever again, and it's even harder because I get attached to people easily and we literally talked every second of the day which made me feel she was the one for me. Now I even think about suicide b/c I lost the only person I felt actually loved and cared about me, but I guess that was all a lie considering she wasn't who she said she was. I don't know what to do now, I'm in a DEEP depression and it's affecting my every day life.
i recently decided to stop pursuing a one-sided relationship. it is not easy i guess letting go of actual ones...but like you said you easily get attached to people.. once the pain dimishes... you will again find someone... that someone again might be another mistake.. and that relationship might not work too but... most of the time... we do move on....believe me when I tried to end my life... 10 years ago i never thought I would fall for anyone again ever but i did...a number of times... and it was also always a wrong person... i havent found Mr Right... he does not exist but that does not mean I would stop looking...
Hi, I am suffering a breakup and feel the same. I was with him for 8 months we had ups and downs and I thought he really loved me. He changed so much in the relationship - a good change - an adult change. Then one day I get I work a lot and am going to school. I have no time for you. I feel like I'm holding you back - let's end things. I felt the breath come out of my lungs. It's only been a month and I'm still not over it and I feel like I should be too. I'm here heartbroken and I'm sure he doesn't care. I'm sure he never thinks of me or is heartbroken himself. I feel like everything he ever told me ... About me was a lie. I really do understand your pain and some days I feel like ending it all. But I realize and you will too by ending it you are giving them the power to completely control your life - from/ on every aspect. Don't give her that power. Find something beautiful in all the pain. Maybe it's a strength you never knew you had. Just find the beauty in the pain...
