I need a ear and some advice
Hello all im new to here and i am struggling with moving on!! I want to but its like my mind is telling me to fight for her!! Is there anyone that can help i didnt cheat on her or abuse her i just took her for granted. I have learned wgat i did wrong started to change my kids see but she dosnt. I pray every night to god to ask if he can bring us back together or help me move on i havnt any help out there im going through a tough time so if you want to know my story just ask. I am already down as it is so no rude comments plz!!
welcome to 7cups of tea. i hope you find help that you need here.
@reachforgoals thank you
@dynamicPlane2895
Hi i am sorry that you are going through that... we've all been there.
i was married for almost 20 years and it was hard for me to put my life together again. now the kids are great and ive started a business that is doing well. i met someone whom i love and i see now that he is my ideal match. but you know that at time the gods can be cruel. this man who is my soul mate (together now for coming to 3 years) is afraid of getting married again.
so my advice for you is to allow these feelings to pass... spend time with friends... do the things that you really enjoy doing and never got to do often. i ran twice a day almost everyday after my divorce.
things may seem dark now but they will get better.
@dynamicPlane2895 I think it is really important for us to remember that some things happen for a reason and we usually dont have any control over them. Its never gonna be easy at first, but remember you are never alone, there are others out there who love and cherish you, you dont wanna let them down. Give it time and it will all fall back to how it is meant to be.
Hey there! Just a heads up that I've relocated your thread to a more suitable area in the forums - in the Relationship Support subcommunity. I wish you the best of luck and a happy new year!
