Is it over?
My boyfriend and i have been fighting for a few weeks now over managing our time together as a couple and yesterday he came out and told me that he has lost more than he gained from our relationship. Hes said its been on his mind for a while and that he was wondering whether it was even worth staying with me anymore. He says he lost friends even when I push him to go out and hang with other people.... i just dont know what to do...he saids he still loves me and doesnt plan on leaving me but my heart is broken and hurts deep inside. I know that i take time out of his schedule but isnt that normal? A girlfriend is someone you trust and want to spend time with. Not just a friend you have sex with, that's fwb. Im just confused and dont know where to go next with my relationship. I am leaving him alone for a few days to do what he wants but i just think that once youre in a relationship, youre not single anymore and you also have to think about your partners needs too... maybe im wrong and my view is skewed but i think that seeing each other for an hour a week is just not enough to keep my relationshp going... especially if he already doesnt think im worth the time and effort.
@Ricelover96
It appears you both might have different understanding and expectations from your relationship. It needs discussion to see things from each other's perspective and work out a solution that respects both your boundaries. If you find that there is no happy place where both sets of expectations can be met, then your question may be relevant about whether this is worth it. At the moment I'm thinking maybe those in-depth discussions haven't happened yet.