Is there hope?
I have been dating a guy for three years now.Long distance since we are in diffrent continents.We have spent a considerable time together and also the communication has been good and we loved each other.He just got accepted to Uni and he will be there for two years.And he says he has no intention of coming to see me.Its hard for me to go to his country.He just chose breakup since he says he can
@intelligentPrune3812 I think you guys need to have an open conversation about this. Let him know that you want to be there for him & his career is important to you too. If he's willing to be with you, he will be. Just talk about it. Let him know that you respect his decision for his career but you guys can handle this too, together. If it has enough strength then you truly will. You guys just need to figure out two things.
1) You need to understand his decision & time for Uni. Give him some space but love.
2) He need to stay in touch with you.
You don't have to be together all the time to be together. But there should be respect, care & a bit of time. So that you know how the other person is doing. :)
If you want to stay connected then you can also tell him to share his things about his work & you can share your days. So that you learn & grow together. But yes, talk about this openly.
