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Is there hope?

User Profile: intelligentPrune3812
intelligentPrune3812 July 31st, 2020

I have been dating a guy for three years now.Long distance since we are in diffrent continents.We have spent a considerable time together and also the communication has been good and we loved each other.He just got accepted to Uni and he will be there for two years.And he says he has no intention of coming to see me.Its hard for me to go to his country.He just chose breakup since he says he can

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User Profile: YogiBeer
YogiBeer July 31st, 2020

@intelligentPrune3812

A relationship can only go as far as each person wants it to. He has made a choice to go to university for 2 years because that is important for his life and for a career that will serve him for the rest of his life. When I went to university I also would have chosen schooling over a relationship. Nobody likes losing a best friend or a bf/gf but sometimes life choices have to be made where that is the outcome. Everybody moves on from their best friend. You can't expect him to come see you but you can't go see him. He's made the choice to go to school, if he is welcoming you to visit him then do so, if you can't then it is over, he has to put school first.