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User Profile: Fashiontine
Fashiontine November 18th, 2019

I had lots of past relationships that didnt work.

I met my ex bf online and weve been talking for 1 year and on in off. I thought before he realized his mistakes for not talking to me for a month. I was hoping that this would be the guy I am waiting for but still the same guy. Is just because I dont have a job for now and all the plans that weve plan didnt work. He just give up on me. I always saw him online and he doesnt even texted if how am I? He always said hes just busy and not online all the time. So, I decided to myself maybe its a time to let go. Because Im tired and pain of his excuses. Then, I just messaged him that it is painful to see you online without any message from me. So I think I dont deserve your love. After a month, he called me to tell me that he miss me but we just need to be a good friend. I didnt accept it because I dont want an ex bf to be my friend after all that I waste my time to him and saying Im to me that his not ready to settle to me. Is like he was just waste my time. Now, Im afraid that every time I meet I guy I feel I couldnt trust them anymore. Im tired of failing a relationship and I dont know what to do? ;(

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User Profile: Heavenisforreal07
Heavenisforreal07 November 22nd, 2019

@Fashiontine, I just decided to move on from a guy that was going back and forth with me for 4 years. I thought he was the 1 for awhile, but then I realized he was just hurting me and keeping me from growing. I'm tired of him playing with me and not knowing what he wants. You and I have to look out for ourselves 1st and realize we deserve much better. I'm glad you're seeing he wasn't good for you and trying to move on.

User Profile: Lovetennis
Lovetennis December 3rd, 2019

@Fashiontine How r u doing? Going through same....its really hard...I am divorced so I thought I had finally found happiness again...Its the worst feeling and it hurts so much. Have u heard from him? Did u mean u r still friends?

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User Profile: Fashiontine
Fashiontine OP December 6th, 2019

@Lovetennis

Hi Im still trying to move on, Butwhenever I saw his same face in dating app. I feel pain and hatred to myself. Also, losing job is added me to depression and Its hard to find a job for me now. Bcoz its not yet the end of the class for hiring teacher. Im broke and Im stressful. 😢

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User Profile: Lovetennis
Lovetennis December 6th, 2019

@Fashiontine. Literally going through exact thing. Trying to find a job with a broken heart is the hardest and is not great for your self esteem. It makes u even more depressed. Where r u located?

Maybe u could try summer school jobs or tutoring? Have u seen your x. Thinking of them with someone else is THE WORST!! it makes u physically sick. How r u doing today? We should talk. 😇

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User Profile: Fashiontine
Fashiontine OP December 8th, 2019

@Lovetennis

Hi, good day! Thank you so much for your concern. I already delete my ex so I couldnt see him anymore. Im to scared now for a relationship. All I need is job for me to move on. But thats not so easy. I have to be patient and hopefully I find a better job abroad. How about you? What makes you busy now after all those things happened to you?

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