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I think I’m ready for a Divorce

User Profile: sociableTree3266
sociableTree3266 February 9th, 2021

So, my husband and I have only been married for 7 months. I know, it is extremely short but I have not had one good day since marrying him. I have become the backbone/ sole provider for our family. All of the bills and responsibilities fall on my shoulders. He works. But no matter what I tell him I need to handle in the house, his hobbies take over. He’s invested almost $1000 into his football league (just a hobby league) meanwhile I’m struggling to pay all of the bills. I put him out and made him remove his name from the lease but our son got sick and he came back to help so that I could still work and hasn’t left. He keeps talking about knowing what he needs to do now to be the man of this family but then the first thing out his mouth is that he has a “game on Saturday” so he can’t watch our son while I work. He wrote a letter to his mom about how I don’t appreciate that since he’s been here helping with our son he’s been cleaning up for me and I don’t take the time to acknowledge that he cleans up or cooks dinner but this is stuff I do every single day including working 12 hr days, going to college, and taking care of the kids. I don’t see a need to thank him for doing the bare freaking minimum. I’m angry more so at myself because I hate being married to him! I took him off of all of my social media and removed all of our wedding photos from the house and he keeps talking about I’m rejecting him but I’m genuinely not attracted to him anymore. Sorry, I just needed a place to vent.

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User Profile: loveOcean
loveOcean February 9th, 2021

@sociableTree3266

i'm most likely would feel the same in your place. *sending comfort and strength beams your way*