Its not me its the situation
I have a partner.. i mean i had a partner for over a year. But things didnt work out because of the situation. I am still legally married (but my “husband” and i broke up about 3 years ago) and i have a child. Thats what my partner can’t accept. I got confused because we went into this relationship with this red flag. And now im not sure if i can still fight and live..
Hi @orangeWest6415,
how about fixing the "situation"?
Fix the situation? How?! I want to be with my partner now but we arw about to break up. She doesnt want my child
Having a child in your life is the most beautiful thing in the world. It feels hard sometimes, but as your child grows older, I guarantee you that you will be happy to have made the decision to put this kid first above all else. Get rid of this person who does not accept that you are a father. It might break your heart, but you should not place someone in your child's life that does not love him/her. There are plenty of wonderful women who will make great mothers-in-law.
I wasn't divorced for a long time officially and my partner accepted it. We go the legal work done though after 5+ years. Contact a lawyer ( nice one ) and ask them to complete the paperwork for you so you can move on with your life - and maybe even tell your new partner who left that you are doing that, maybe they will change their mind ..