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I'm considering a divorce from my husband of 10 years. It has crossed my mind many times in the last 4 yrs, almost daily. When we have a conversation, he will either interrupt me or talk over me or just not pay attention. When I tell him how I'm feeling, I get to im wrong to feel like that and I need to feel like this. I told him last week I wanted a divorce and my mind was made up. He's been acting like I never said it. There's a lot of issues we have and I'm just done. He just won't let go. Im just lost on what I need to do.
Once you hit the "I'm done", chances are you're done. Sounds like he is in denial. I would say start researching places to live. If he asks where you are going or why did you get home so late, you can let him know you were looking for a place to live. That will most likely get his attention. Move yourself into another bedroom and bathroom if possible for the time being. You can't help the way you feel. You have to make yourself happy. I hope this helps a little.