Lost and Alone
My ex-boyfriend of one year broke up with me last month, when I was traveling. He brought his brother along with him and broke up with me for the first time a couple of months ago. Then I had deep trust issues, which is why we were taking it slow. Last month I left for a course, with a lot of doubt if we'd last through a month of my absence. He did all he could to make me believe we would last. 15 days in, he ignored me fir a cohe of days and told me his head was not in the relationship. We then broke up. I'm completely lost and broken now, we are doing no contact, but I keep wondering what he's upto and whether he's alright. I wake up with thoughts of him and sleep with dreams about him. He returned all the gifts I had given him which hurt me a lot. I also have a lot of questions like why we broke up?why we gave our relationship a chance after our first break up of his head was not in it? What did I do to hurt him?
I’m sorry you’re going through this. Breakups are always hard, but with time, don’t worry, you will heal!
Hi! It must be hard for you. I just broke up with my bf a month ago. Similar case as you, he suddenly ended the relationship with me after I came back from my trip. There were no sign of break up since we never had any big issues. He just suddenly feel that he didn’t love me anymore. If you feel lost, lonely and dunno what to do, I usually watch YouTube about how to get the ex back. Also, I read books about break up recovery like “getting past your break up..” by Susan J Elliott. It helps me a lot during my bad day especially when I suddenly remember about him