Love sucks
Was in a relationship for six years and I told the guy I was dating about my past relationship before him . He use my past against me and he would just accuse me of cheating on him when I was in school or when I was at home . He hide stuff from me and lie to me and He would call me worthless , bitch ,whore little girl and so much more . He controls my whole life & used me for sex. I end up in the hope spital because I wanted to overdose on pills because my life completely fell apart because I had know who loves me for me .
@Princesstiny21
Hi there, I really hear how everything has just been very vulnerable, raw and painful to deal with. I am sorry to hear that your boyfriend treats you that way; nobody should feel like they are worthless. You deserve to be loved and respected and not taken for granted. Being in a relationship for 6 years is a long time though, and I was wondering if you have tried to discuss your feelings with your boyfriend? Let him know that it is he who you love and that he needs to have more faith in you. Perhaps he is feeling insecure about himself and is indirectly projecting his fears of losing you onto you? It is hard to say though as you know him and your relationship better than anyone, so, unfortunately, nobody can tell you what you can do to fix this. But I am curious as to what you think. Do you think that you'll be happier without him? Do you feel like you guys have more bad memories than good memories?
All in all, please know that you are not alone and that you'll find support here on 7Cups. It's a hard thing to deal with by yourself.
