Messaging my partner after we split to chat
Hi,
On Saturday I was told by my girlfriend that she was done with this meaning me and our relationship.
Is it the right thing to message her on tomorrow (Wednesday) because I am wanting to chat to her as I'm not sure if she will message me. We have been together nearly 4 years which in that time there has been occasions ive lied, not about anything happening behind her back but out of fear I cant tell her as I dont know what her reaction would be.
I do want to message her to see if we can meet up and chat as I am not totally sure if we have split with her not removing me off socials, she waited round for me to speak to her before she left and she didnt directly say we are splitting I had to ask her.
Any advice on if to message or not and if so how soon should I message.
Thank you.
@ell02
Try messaging someone she knows, to ask if she wants to see you or no. If you really want to talk to her though, I’d recommend waiting for another day or two to allow her to think things over. If she has social media, look there for any clues that she’s mad, doesn’t want to talk, or wants to talk/regrets it.
Hope this helps <3
@ell02,
give her and yourself space.
Meaning, no contact, no messages. Respect her decision.
