Messy Heart And Mind
My boyfriend broke up with me as the relationship was getting toxic because of me. I am an overthinker and tends to think negative or scenarios that have no happen. We tend to have conflict because of this. Beginning of this month i promise to change and there was improvement compared to before but it came back again after he was hanging out with his classmates (there are girls) that made me jealous. He's actually busy with his work and school stuff so he was stressed and moreover he have to find time for me and i guess that last argument was the last straw where he let me go cause he said he was tired. He texted me recently saying he is sorry for everyting but i recently replied long paragraph about my self relfections and wanting to go back. He's seen it yesterday night but he has not replied. Should i move on for good or give hope for him that he will come back?
Oh, hello. I am really sorry that you are going through this. Give him some time, then try to call him and make an appointment to discuss everything face to face and not through messages. Serious issues cannot be resolved via messaging. It might be unbearable, but everything will definitely be resolved in due time.
Hello, I'm sorry you're going through this. I think you should give him some time and space, the fact that he's sorry is a good sign for you to move on from that version of your relationship, maybe you'll have a new version of the relationship or a new relationship itself? Also, try not to talk over text/ long paragraphs as it doesn't give the receiver the ability to communicate. I suggest you write down your thoughts, and have a sit down discussion with him if hes okay with it. If he's not, self reflection is going to help you bloom into a better version of yourself, so you got nothing to lose 😉
