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User Profile: toughMoon3561
toughMoon3561 September 15th, 2021

Hello, Im hoping someone here can give some advice... im in the process of getting divorced. My husband asked me for a divorce earlier this year after close to a year of neglect and abandonment from his end. I don’t have feelings for my soon to be ex-husband and the divorce is mutual. Now, about a month ago, this new person and I went on a date. Things were great but unfortunately it was decided to end since due to this person being ready for something serious and although I want something serious too, im not sure if its okay to do that. I was not looking to date, I was only working on myself and it just happened. But its weird to me to have a relationship when there are people who are not even aware of my divorce... I really like this new person but idk what to do. Do I just let them go?

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User Profile: captain16
captain16 September 15th, 2021

I say are you going through divorce still.. like. Rand new!?... I would still give yourself time... you don't want it to feel like a rebound.. and even if guy is serious. And eventually⅕ you are too... if it's worth the wait then it's worth the wait... especially if you like each other!.

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User Profile: toughMoon3561
toughMoon3561 OP September 15th, 2021

Yes the divorce is still in process but the marriage has been dead for about a year now... probably even longer. But I do believe that if its meant, it will happen eventually. Its just difficult because this new person and I we both might move to different states next year. I figured slowing down was better and was not sure if I made the right decision. Thank you ❤️

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User Profile: toughMoon3561
toughMoon3561 OP September 15th, 2021

Yes the divorce is still in process but the marriage has been dead for about a year now... probably even longer. But I do believe that if its meant, it will happen eventually. Its just difficult because this new person and I we both might move to different states next year. I figured slowing down was better and I wasn’t sure if I made the right decision in letting go. Thank you ❤️