My boyfriend broke up with me, how can I fix things?
My boyfriend has gone through a lot all his life, like he was abused growing up and things like that. He
@isabelladdl01
So, as a guy, I think he just wants to figure out his own problems himself. It's not that he doesn't still love you, but he doesn't want you to see his emotionally broken side. He doesn't want you to view him as a bitter and broken guy, but a guy who has has his s*it together. Try conivincing a close friend of his to get him to open up on what's really going on. Or, If you both are drinkers, try getting him to open up when he's a bit more drunk than you. Other than that, I'm sure only you know what's best for him because your his girl & you clearly have his back :) You both will be fine, he just needs to clear his head for a minute. It's not you, it's his own personal issues that are plaguing him. I hope he gets better though. Peace
@DVO19 thank you. I just get scared he doesn't want me ya know. I would go through H**l and back for him. I love him a lot and just want him to be okay and for us to be okay. How long do you think I should wait to reach out to him and try and fix things?
@DVO19 This hit home hard, i iust went through basically the same thing today. My boyfriend broke up with me and when i asked if i had done something wrong, he made it very clear that it was nothing i had done and was all on him. Still, it broke my heart because i love him even now that we're not together. I just wanted and still want to be there for him, no matter what, through thick and thin. But now i dont know if I'll ever get the chance to do that again. I hope with every ounce of my body that there'll be a second chance for us in the future and that it would last.
Me and my boyfriend were going out for almost 3 years. Until I ended it with him because I was depressed and I don't cope well but even before that I was already having the symptoms like separation, isolation, being cold, not wanting to talk. I broke up with him in June of 2019. He didn't know about anything, what I was feeling and going through but all I said was that I needed time for myself and I needed to find myself. Just recently 2 week or so ago I contacted him to see how he was doing and if we could meet up to talk and he said that he couldn't because he had gotten into a relationship with some chick. I was devastated when I he told me. I mean he was my very first boyfriend, we did everything together, we went to so many places together he gave me a promise ring and everything and he got in a relationship after just 9 months of us breaking up like what the f... Did all those years mean nothing to him I mean I know I broke his heart and mine but really nine months was all it took for him to find someone. He was my very first boyfriend and I was his first real relationship. I don't get it how could he move on...how could he learn to like someone or love someone that fast I feel like I was nothing to him that all my years with him meant nothing. I just don't know what to feel? I feel like crying but I can't because I'm strong and all and I know there's plenty of fish out there but I'm just stuck on what to feel in this situation? Am I wrong for feeling like this?