My wife is divorcing me
Hello. On Monday my ex wife who I had been with for 8 years and have a daughter with texted me telling me she wants a divorce. As you can imagine, the hurt this caused has been significant. She’s also currently trying to kick me out of my own home. I’ve lost everything, and to top it off I think she’s been seeing someone else. I just need support, help, to get through the days. I have BPD so my feelings are sensitive and it’s just completely ruining me. I have a 2 year old with her, but she’s making everything impossible for me from every angle. Please, please can someone help.
I haven’t. I just don’t have anyone to talk too :(
I've been divorced once and am trying to prevent another one now. My advice is this: prepare yourself for any outcome That is to: -Research divorce tips online. What to expect. What to prepare for. -Seek a lawyer or attorney regarding your rights. Often leaving a home for any reason is frowned upon and can likely work against you in court. Especially since you have a child. -Seek professional counseling for yourself on this matter. Plan to go solo but even better if you can get her to be involved too. You still have a child together and divorce or not, you still have to be in each other lives. -Hire a PI to see what your wife is up to. If she's cheating this might help you in court or at least help you come to grips with reality. -Remember you can't make someone want to be with you. And why would that be meaningful anyway if you could. You deserve someone that loves and cares about you. Don't try to hold on to someone who doesn't value you in that way.
Thank you. It’s not got any better and now domestic abuse is happening so I’ve contacted a few people about that to get some help. Thank you for you’re kind words x