Need help please.
So basically me and my ex bf parted ways one year ago and it was on bad terms. I couldn't resist and in moment of weakness I messaged him. I messaged him why he did and what he did. Like it could set me all free but he said he doesnt owe me explanation. I didn't carry convo. Later, 14 days I texted him again asking how he doing and said thankyou to his birthday wish. He ended conversation very quickly. After few days, I texted him again and said if he wants to talk. He said depends what you wanna talk about. i said not getting back or past. although I wanted it tbvh just because of fear of rejection. I didn't say. He said everything is okay from his end and that he doesn't wanna talk because there is no point. I said I miss him and he said I should control and shouldn't miss him and be happy. i said to him how he was replying. He said what were you expecting and please leave. Dont message. He later blocked me idk maybe because I changed my privacy to nobody and later few days he unblocked me again.
I only messaged him when I saw he saw my whatsapp stories when I uploaded them for the first time. He kept on seeing few stories and later didn't. After unblocking me he saw my stories for 2 days and after that he didn't.
Just wanted to know whether he wants me or not? Still interested or not
@exuberantBalsam4488. i woukd move on you deserve better
@ladybug238 he isn't interested?
@exuberantBalsam4488 It could very well be that he has feelings for you, but for his own health and happiness, is chosing to leave things as they are an move on. In either case, if he is making it clear he does not want contact, I would say yeah, he isn't interested in starting anything back up again and the best thing to do here is to take a step back and leave it be.
@SpoonTheory will he approach me?
@exuberantBalsam4488. doesn't seem like it
@exuberantBalsam4488 I hate to say it but it really doesnt look like it's good news (or maybe it is depending on the perspective).
After ready the post I've seen a number of indications that are very negative and that show he doesnt respect you not does he want to reignite the relationship. At the same time, if hes interacting with your social media then he maybe interested to see what you're doing now that you've started to message him again but it probably stops at just being curiosity.
If I was you then I'd block him on all social media and remove him as a contact. Not to be nasty but to take away your own curiosity/temptation and to help you clear you mind of him so you can hopefully move on and find someone that treats you the way you want and deserve to be treated x
@Barrold
Why would he unblock me? And I didn't do anything wrong that he wouldn't respect me. It still hurts like hell.
@exuberantBalsam4488 it seems like you're looking for signs that just aren't there 😔
Because he unblocked (let's call him Joe to make things easy) you doesnt indicate that Joe wants to start things again otherwise he would have messaged you first.
Each interaction that you have listed starts with you contacting Joe followed by signs from him that he's not interested in you and the representation of him that you have given shows that you shouldn't be wasting your time or feelings on him.
I understand that you're not in a happy place but to break free you need to remove him from your thoughts.
I wish you well and hopefully you resolve your issue, one way or another x
@QuietlyConfused
Maybe you are right. Maybe I am looking for signs that doesn't even exists. He disrespected me. Why would he disrespect me this much? I contacted him after a year. Things would have been cooled down by now. Is he trying to play games with me?
@exuberantBalsam4488 who knows but you're 100% correct. He did disrespect you! So be strong and quietly remove the negativity from your life. It may take time but I promise you'll eventually feel much happier, stronger and more confident for it x
@QuietlyConfused
How can i regain respect?
@exuberantBalsam4488 you can gain respect by acknowledging that he isn't worth your time. You just need to believe in yourself and not let people treat you like garbage
@QuietlyConfused
Also he doesn't want to reignite relationship?
@QuietlyConfused
Is there a possibility he is trying to hurt me purposefully?
@exuberantBalsam4488 I'm afraid I dont know but I wouldn't waste your time worrying about it
