Needing advice
i met a guy a year and a half ago and very quickly fell for him spending maybe too much time together getting completely caught up and head over heals. A month and a half in he tell me he actually had a baby on the way and I appreciated the honesty or so I thought. Another 9 months later he came clean and told me he was actually still with his sons mom (we were ALWAYS at my place because of a sitter, him not wanting his son to meet another woman too soon (Blah blah). He hated the mess he had made and loved me and wanted to support the mother and baby and had all these excuses as to why he lied and I was soooo angry but against everything in me, I believed him... we were going to move in together and make everything work while trying to respect his son and sons mother the best we could. I think at this time he was emotionally distraught and acted out and ended up getting arrested, released with conditions the next day and court another 7 months later. At this point, I hit my breaking point and decided I couldn
@resourcefulTurtle6281
drunk or not, if you say no he should listen. Im sure you love him but you are his victim. You need to communicate with him about his betrayal and walk away. He violated you. I was in love with someone who abused me for 3 1/2 years out of our 4 year relationship and I found myself justifying his actuons and making excuses for him. You both need to face what hes done or I feel you wont heal from this.
@resourcefulTurtle6281 Yes you can be raped. No means no. No matter what.
@resourcefulTurtle6281 Please take good care of yourself. You are a valuable person, deserving of love, respect, support and acceptance.
