Nervous about seeing him
Long story short, my ex broke up after him not wanting to have a girlfriend after one year of a relationship with me. It happened a sudden, without a clue. I am aware this is strange, and i’m so confused about this. He never really explained why.
Fine, it’s been 5 months. I respect his decision and unfortunately, I’ll love & support him from a distance now. I’ve been trying my best so far. However, my stuff are still at his place. After a lot of delaying from his side, we finally got a day for me to pick them up.
I mentioned to him that he could leave the things outside, if that works best for him. He responded “you don’t want to see me at all?” & honestly, i am not ready for that. I’m not ready to see him again, because it’s probably gonna make me so sad.
Any tips or advice for me picking up my stuff? I’m just really scared it’s gonna be awkward, or if it’s a goodbye. I understand that the goodbye needs to happen, but it still scares me. As I still think of him of the person I love.
@raspberryDay6508 awe love, I'm so sorry you had to go through that. But personally, I think it would help if you saw him. Just to get it done and over with y'know? I think it would be better to just get it done and over with so you don't have to do it later. Hope this helped!
absolutely! i’m just so not ready for diving into the sadness ‘once again’ after i left his place. but, has to be done. thank you so much 🤍
@raspberryDay6508 Your very welcome my love. I just want you to do what you are comfortable with!
@raspberryDay6508 Sorry this happened to you, but maybe talking it through with him just may be the best decision. You can do this and have encouragement! <3