No communication
So me and my ex broke up nearly 2 months ago and I've struggled to let go, we both get on so well still and keep getting really close, I've just spent the last 3 days at her house, we did everything like we use to laughed together loads, watched TV, cooked food together, slept together, kissed, hugged, rubbed her legs and even held hands when we out to the shop but she did make it clear that she doesn't want a relationship because it got too serious so after these few days we will be back to normal, this is the 3rd time this has happened now and each time before now we fell out because we didn't know what we were doing but this time she talked about what she didn't want after, its been nearly 1 day and she hasn't replied to a message asking how she is, If she wants a non serious relationship I'm happy with that but then after 3 days together why would she want to blank me out? She's really not the type of person to use me I know she enjoys our time together
@hardywoo85
Hello Hardy
I am ScarletPear1945, It is so nice to meet you. I am sorry to hear that you and your wife are not together. It is also nice that the two of you have been able to come together and really enjoy one another. For a season in my husband and I relationship, we went through something similar. I like your wife felt we did better being apart than together. and we did that for about three years so I really relate to your story. He wanted us to get back together but I did not want the same type of relationship that we had. Has she expressed what she would like to see a change in your relationship? or have you ask her?
She may be trying to figure out what she wants and that could be the reason for the nonreply. maybe just backing back and giving her space so she can figure out what she wants to do. I can see that you are a very caring person and I think you deserve the best. Don't give up and hang in there. I hope you get your hearts desire. Stay strong I am rooting for you.
