No contact situation
So heres a brief explanation of my situation. My ex was going through a really really tough patch in her life and she just couldnt handle a relationship right now. I agreed with her and stayed calm and parted with her on good terms. Immediately I initiated no contact and ignored all her posts on social media. Its day 5 since being broke up with and she just reached out to me today. Her first text said I just wanted to check in on you, 2 minutes later I also have your shirt and you have my bowl then now 30 minutes later she just said please. I feel like shes really worried about me and is trying to find any way possible for me to contact her. I will admit that I was a little bit clingy in the relationship and since Im not responding or texting her I think its getting to her. I deleted her texts and just ignored them for now. Also i wouldnt be comfortable meeting with her right now anyways so should I continue with ignoring her texts or should I respond? Please let me know your thoughts anything would be helpful
@tidyOcean8597 You had a no contact situation because you both mutually agreed for it to be the best choice to go with at the time but it sounds like she really wants your support now. What makes you want to continue maintaining no contact? What makes you tempted to contact her? Maybe you can also message her saying how youre not comfortable being in contact because of the agreement or change the no contact rule to be only until a certain period of time?
Its clear you care about her and want her to be happy so in a way, ignoring her feels like tough love. Ultimately, this is your choice to make and I hope things work out for the best.
