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Not ready for a relationship

September 19th, 2016

We dated for two months and kept seeing each other at work. He told me he wasn't ready for a relationship and now he has a girlfriend. I feel very stupid, I even felt sorry for him. He obviously lied to me. I feel humilliated.

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User Profile: cristiana33
cristiana33 September 19th, 2016

@Feelalone

I am sorry you had to be in this position. He obviously didn't respected what he told you for some reason. I don't think you should feel stupid for something he chose to do or not do. This isn't in any way in relation to you but to himself only. He may have noticed you two have different perspectives on what you want but he should have communicated that. The fact he has a girlfriend doesn't mean he is in that relationship for long term. It's all about communication, boundaries and yes respect! Why do you feel so bad about this?

User Profile: hopefulRainbows30
hopefulRainbows30 September 21st, 2016

@Feelalone I'm so sorry to hear this. That relationship has been important to you. Nobody deserves to be deceived and played with. sad