Open relationship
My girlfriend loves me emotionally but sexually she doesn’t she wants to explore maybe with other guys she says it might just be a phase but I told her I’d leave if she did but now I said I’d be fine if it was one time with a guy but I have a traditional mindset in believing if you are in a relationship you do everything with that person only (sexual wise) and she says her sexual attraction is older guys right now but it hurts me because I’m really sexually attracted to her but she isn’t and I’ve waited to do something with her but we haven’t done anything in a while just for her to bring this up to me she was sad if I left and I don’t want to leave her but she is presisent on still wanting to explore she says sexual things aren’t that important but are they really not that important if you are willing to break up a 1 year relationship just to explore?
@braveZebra9744 I know you love this person but I don’t think it is fair for them to put you in this position that you are clearly uncomfortable with. I think you need to really make it clear to her that this is not ok with you though it seems you have and if you are not being heard that’s not ok.
And if she knows I’m uncomfortable with it?
I’ve told her but she says since we live once she wants to explore and not be restricted she wants to do what she wants
She doesn’t share your same values. This relationship is destined for failure. Let her go she doesn’t love you .
@braveZebra9744 I'm sorry you are struggling in your relationship. It sounds like you may not be compatible tbh. For some people, exploring things in that way is very important, and it doesn't mean she doesn't love you but you are probably better off finding someone who wants to be monogamous.
Hmm I want to make it work though she did she didn’t want it to be a forever open relationship she just wants the experience of a college hookup and see how it is i guess but idk I really don’t want to leave her