Over and now what?
Recently ended up almost 3 years long relationship.I am struggling with really big doubts, like what was wrong with me, why it didn't work out an having a big fear of ending up alone.I know that is normal but it's also terrifying to start all over without energy, any positivity and with huge trust issues.Its so unfair and I am so mad about being so stupid to put my whole energy and hard work into someone who betrayed me like I never meant anything..
You could always be a mad old cat lady..
But really half us have been where you are, betrayed.
Trust issues. And you do take them into the next relationship. Which is something for you to talk about.....
My ex did this..... Then you can find a person that's on the same.page...
I’m in a similar place. A 5 year relationship over. Not my choice, been cheated on lied to and yet I still live them but know it’s over. Can’t bear the thought of losing g my house too but that’s what will happen. I thought we had a future, I’m heartbroken
I can totally relate with you, I am still trying to get over my 2.5 year relationship as well. It's not easy especially when you work with them.
It hurts when someone betrays your trust and your heart, the best thing to do I think is to occupy your mind and start going outside, if you can avoid all contact and cyber stalking them.
I can totally relate to you! 4 years and a house we recently bought together is down the drain. He has taken what seems like everything from me. I keep thinking he will be fine and happy and I won’t. I feel betrayed. It’s the worst
Big hugs. I can totally relate. I fell into my current relationship serendipitously. We connected at such a deep level and but i still had trust issues. He cinvinced me that he would look after my heart. Treasure it and never hurt it. Recently all its been are lies, secrets, fights, distance and constant hurt.
If you love someone you treasure them and try all your might not to hurt them.
Now all his actions or lack of are hurtful. Yet when i raise this to discuss it wnds up in arguments and i hate arguments.
I dont know what to do anymore. He has broken me. He has rubbished my trust and my heart that ive so delicately placed in his care. All i can do is watch him go further and further away and feel my heart rip out of me with him.
Its been three years. Its been great so how can it go so wrong?
I hope you get closure.
In pain we endure together
M
I can understand you. In a very deep level.
I feel.. empty.
Every step I make, even when I make something good, I only feel pain. In my stomach, I guess.
The heart is no longer in my body.
I'm sorry for you.
I'm sorry for all of us.
