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Realizing the truth of my parent(s)

User Profile: T0G
T0G May 30th, 2020

I never thought I would come to dislike one of my parents. I always thought when I was a kid I would love my parents despite the few times they may have annoyed me. However as I got older, One of my parents changed. I started to see manipulative behavior, distancing, selfishness, and victimizing. As each day passes their behavior becomes more and more evident. Why do I feel likethings like this shouldn't have happened?

In other words why do I feel Guilty?

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User Profile: survivorstarr
survivorstarr June 3rd, 2020

@T0G

Hi!
I'm also coming to the conclusion that my Mom, with her emotional abuse and neglect, did far more damage then my father did with his physical abuse. I find myself resenting her and being angry with her, almost on a daily basis. I don't have a solution for you, but you're def not alone.