Really Rocky Relationship
So me and my bf a in a long distance relationship and we were fine until about Marchish, them things just went bad and I really can't figure out why we're taking a break right now but I feel like it would be better just to break up, I always feel like I'm the worst girlfriend in the world and that I'm always hurting him... should I do it or try to fix it?
@blueApricot7805 why do you feel you are the worst girlfriend in the world? Who initiated the break and why? Do you see a future with this person? Do you guys plan to not be long distance ever?
@hixenbaugh9 I always feel like I'm hurting him, he doesn't seem to understand that I'm not a very talkative person and that I'm just content to listen and he gets upset about that. I initiated the break because all this was just really putting me down and honestly, I'm happier now than before the break. I honestly do not see much if a future but I'm not much of a future planner at the same time. We're both in high school and he's just a town away, but he's going to a college in my town next year, but I just can't see it lasting that long.
@blueApricot7805 if you can't see it lasting long and you're unsure about a future and you feel happier now that you're on a break, i would say you need to rip off the band aid and break up. Let him have the rest of senior year free to be with his friends and go to college without the emotional turmoil of a break up. Prolonging the inevitable or a relationship that has an expiration date just makes it hurt longer
@hixenbaugh9 thank you
