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User Profile: Jas0355
Jas0355 March 12th, 2020

Me and my gf broke up 25 days ago

It's was 4 years long distance relationship and we met only once in last December.

She always want to study abroad and she don't want to go against her family so we did not have future together

So 25 days ago her family suggest her one boy. She met him and started liking him and started talking on call 3-4 hrs

After 2 day meeting him she told me that she will marry with him and she don't want to keep 2 boy in her life so she want breakup and keep me as best friend

I was so hurt and cried for 10 days feel so depressed but somehow I'm habitual of hurts

She started telling me everythig how she met and how he is..she got too much attachment with him

What's should i do it's good to being with her as best friend because I still love her or should I block her from everywhere ?

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User Profile: AveryLove
AveryLove March 20th, 2020

@Jas0355 hello! first of all i am so sorry to hear about the breakup and i can imagine it must be a tough time for you right now sad i am not, and no one else on this site is in the right position to tell you what to do exactly since we are no professionals and our advice could be hurtful for you ( i dont want that!) but you could maybe ask yourself if you would rather still have her in your life, even if only as friends, or if you think that having no connection would help you deal with the breakup and to "move on". I can understand that for some people having some distance would be helpful in order to cope, but its not always the case and you may find it even more helpful to still have her in your life as support system. i am sure that you will make the right decision, let us know if we can support you in this tough time.

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User Profile: Jas0355
Jas0355 OP March 26th, 2020

@AveryLove I also think it's good to being with her

But everytime I think about her

When she tell about him I feel jealous and broken

When she ignores me it's really painful

But she tells me everything about him and how they meet what they done

She listen my every suggestions and she don't want me to go from her life

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