Recent breakup
I broke up with my best friend who became my boyfriend. I have decided on the no contact rule and blocked him on all social media. I haven’t spoken to him since the breakup. I have moments on intense longing and the urge to contact him and I have to stop myself. I feel like I may not be doing the right thing.
@Reez29
Breaking up is really really difficult. And the feelings you have are absolutely normal. When you love someone and they were your best friend, it makes sense that you miss them.
Hope you feel better soon. Sending you vibes for strength and clarity ❤️
Thank you for sharing @Reez29🙏. I’m in the same boat, I can sympathize, you’re not alone. I also just had a breakup with my best friend that became my boyfriend. Tried to go back to just friends after the breakup, but didn’t work. We just kept sliding into old habits, good and especially bad ones. So I decided to walk away from the friendship. That’s the hardest part for me. Losing my best friend. Lovers come and go, but a best friend is a different story. I often also feel I may not be doing the right thing, but I try to remember why things ended, the bad parts I couldn’t handle anymore. I’m trying no contact, but I admit I’ve slipped up a few times. It’s not easy, but all we can do is try our best one day at a time. Just remember to breathe. You tried your best, and deserve better. It will get easier, at least that’s what I’ve been told.
