Recent unexpected breakup
A bit of background information on my break up. It was a (very) long distance relationship, I live in the UK and he lived in US. Today, out of the blue, I received a message from my now-ex simply stating that he couldn't cope with the stress of our relationship and ended things, further proceeding to block me on all social media (Facebook, Skype, Kik, etc.) so I am unable to contact him.
This was a shock to me and has hurt me badly. I was not looking to get into a relationship at the time (around December) and so decided to give it a go. Now, however it has ended pretty badly and I feel hurt and betrayed. Any advice would be appreciated :)
@blueacres4959 Hi, sweetheart. I don't have any insight or advice for you, but I want you to know you are not alone. I am embroiled in a great love affair (at least, as far as I understand such things!) with someone 9500 miles away. And I wake up terrified every day not sure if I will find myself in a similar situation, suddenly cut off from someone I have grown to adore, respect, and love. It seems unlikely he would do such a thing, but you probably thought something along the same lines before it out of the blue happened to you.
It's a scary situation, and without being geographically close to your special someone, things often seem so precarious; how can you possibly meet in person to resolve or get closure in such an instance? And yours seems to have ended in such an abrubt and unkind way. Please know that this community is here for you, and there are people here that can help you work out your feelings hopefully, and get you back on the road to being a happy you.
Good luck with working through this painful period in your life. I wish you great happiness and peace.
@ladylazarus1971 Hi lovely, thank you so much for your kindness. It was very unexpected and I'm taking it badly. However, I do hope everything for you goes well x
@blueacres4959 I'm glad you are reaching out though. Such a healthy and important thing to do. I am seriously weirded out by my whole relationship thing, and it would make my life so much better to have his and my relationship work in a healthy way for even awhile. I kinda need proof I can have any healthy relationship ever. Let us all know how you are feeling from time to time, and what kind of help, if any, would be good for you. <3
