Scared of Breaking Up
I was in a toxic relationship for almost 10 years until we stopped communicating last year April. We kind communicated again since last month though just casual conversations but he would often ask if I can go out. I would always decline because first, I am currently living in my parent's house so people will surely look for me if I go out and they dont know about us. Second, I am not sure if I still want to be in the relationship. The past few days I had been ignoring his texts and calls. He asked me if he should come to our house instead. I am really anxious right now. HELP!
I think the first would be asking yourself do you want to be in the relationship. If you don’t want to, then tell him clearly. The most important thing I think would be what do you want. And make it clear to him what do you want :)
Thank you for the insight. I just worry that he will not understand me and insist on what he wants.
