Seeing him with someone else
Hey.. so my first love and I broke up almost a month ago and Ive finally been feeling happy and doing fine. But now I see him out partying, or just like having a bonfire with other people (some are girls.) one of the girls is a good friend of mine and theyve hung out in a group twice in the last week. I get so angry that he is doing just fine and is living the life and might be trying to get with girls, while Im over here heartbroken because of him just trying to get my life and friends back. And when I see him hanging out and doing stuff with people it feels like all the healing Ive done is gone. Any advice?
@Caitlinrosee
U can ezpexp this to go on for a while because if u really cared about this person then you'll definitely feel if not a lot then a bit of this. Eventually when you start getting your life back together and start seeing friends you'll feel at peace with it. This feeling would still be there but you'll learn to let it be
@Caitlinrosee It's okay to feel how you feel. But at the same time, perhaps your journey is not the same as his. He might be out partying but that doesn't mean he isn't sad, either. It might be just his way of coping (going out, doing things, maintaining friendships, etc.) What he's doing is no longer your concern. On to better and bigger things. :)
