Separation
My husband of 11yrs and 7months cheated with a much older woman. We have a 9yrs old boy and a 6yrs old girl, he started snapping at the kids and at me for everything he always looked upset and when I would ask him what was going on and he would say that it was all my fault that I was the one changing. Everything was always my fault, my parents always took his side and I was so anxious and stress all the time my body was always hurting. I work and do online classes full time but I still did everything, I never expected for him to clean, cook or even help with the kids. I'm in so much pain I'm 34yrs old and he cheated with a woman that is in her late 40s early 50s, he had a picture of them together on his phone the same phone that our kids use. Why why would he do that to us!?
@GZVMoon926 hello there. i am so sorry to hear about your situation with your husband... i can not even imagine how difficult it must be to deal with that for you and your family. you do not deserve to be treated like that at all. sending you lots of hugs and strength if you want. i hope that ranting on here maybe helped you to feel a bit relieved? 
we are here to support you and your family through these ups and downs in your life.
@AveryLove thank you. It actually did help to have a place where I can express my feelings. Thank you for your support
@GZVMoon926
How r u doing? Sending u a hug. 😊
@Lovetennis During the day I am good. But when I get home I feel lonely, my kids do their own thing and I really have no one to talk to😢 and that's when I feel sad. Thank you for the hug😊
I know exactly how u feel. At least u have something during day to keep u busy. I have been stay at home mom..I am trying to start a career after being married then continuing to stay home....so now that my son is 11 I need somthing for me...not to mention the $. Lol. It's just so painful now....its hard to focus on new start. (I am not speaking of x husband) we have been apart for 4 years...I thought my new relationship was "it". It was a lot of back and forth...great at beginning...then his commitment wavered. I should have known my worth then and hit the road....but NOPE! 🙄
How r u today?
Also..a friend saw him on a dating site...makes me physically sick to my stomach to think of him with someone else. Ugh... that is the WORST thing to have to try and not think about for sure!! How r your children doing with his leaving?
@Lovetennis my kids took it hard and they are working on getting used to it. He comes to see the kids 3 to 4 times a week which makes it hard for me spend when we are at my son's flag football games. He cheated and he says he is not talking to her anymore and begged me to forgave him but the pain and the lost of trust are to great. I also hate and it makes me sick to think about him with that skank or anyone else.
@GZVMoon926 my son also plays flag football.😁
Do u think u could ever forgive him in time? How long have u been apart? Do u think he truly wants forgiveness? Sometimes people can make mistakes...and in time things could maybe be better? ....but u would have to know he TRULY was remorseful and was over the skank!! She will go to a special place in hell I think....homewrecking trash!!
@Lovetennis for months he mistreating my kids and me. I would beg him to talk to me to tell me what was wrong and he would blame me for everything that it was me that was changing with him. It got to a point that I started feeling sick, I started getting nosebleeds, hives around my body and my stomach was so bloated I looked pregnant. I couldn't sleep everytime I closed my eyes I would get horrible vivid dreams even when I would close them for a second. And when I found the picture of him with the skank and saw a huge smile on his face I was mortified while he was making us suffer he was all happy and smiles with her. That is something I could never forgive him for. We've been separated for 2 weeks and in just that time my pregnancy stomach went away, nosebleeds, hives and dreams all disappeared. So no I don't think I could ever go back with him.
@Lovetennis I hope you do find a job soon, that will really help you to move on and financially. Wish you the best of luck😊
