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User Profile: GZVMoon926
GZVMoon926 October 19th, 2019

My husband of 11yrs and 7months cheated with a much older woman. We have a 9yrs old boy and a 6yrs old girl, he started snapping at the kids and at me for everything he always looked upset and when I would ask him what was going on and he would say that it was all my fault that I was the one changing. Everything was always my fault, my parents always took his side and I was so anxious and stress all the time my body was always hurting. I work and do online classes full time but I still did everything, I never expected for him to clean, cook or even help with the kids. I'm in so much pain I'm 34yrs old and he cheated with a woman that is in her late 40s early 50s, he had a picture of them together on his phone the same phone that our kids use. Why why would he do that to us!?

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User Profile: AveryLove
AveryLove October 23rd, 2019

@GZVMoon926 hello there. i am so sorry to hear about your situation with your husband... i can not even imagine how difficult it must be to deal with that for you and your family. you do not deserve to be treated like that at all. sending you lots of hugs and strength if you want. i hope that ranting on here maybe helped you to feel a bit relieved? heart we are here to support you and your family through these ups and downs in your life.

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User Profile: GZVMoon926
GZVMoon926 OP October 23rd, 2019

@AveryLove thank you. It actually did help to have a place where I can express my feelings. Thank you for your support

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User Profile: Lovetennis
Lovetennis October 24th, 2019

@GZVMoon926

How r u doing? Sending u a hug. 😊

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User Profile: GZVMoon926
GZVMoon926 OP October 24th, 2019

@Lovetennis During the day I am good. But when I get home I feel lonely, my kids do their own thing and I really have no one to talk to😢 and that's when I feel sad. Thank you for the hug😊

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User Profile: Lovetennis
Lovetennis October 24th, 2019

I know exactly how u feel. At least u have something during day to keep u busy. I have been stay at home mom..I am trying to start a career after being married then continuing to stay home....so now that my son is 11 I need somthing for me...not to mention the $. Lol. It's just so painful now....its hard to focus on new start. (I am not speaking of x husband) we have been apart for 4 years...I thought my new relationship was "it". It was a lot of back and forth...great at beginning...then his commitment wavered. I should have known my worth then and hit the road....but NOPE! 🙄

How r u today?

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User Profile: Lovetennis
Lovetennis October 24th, 2019

Also..a friend saw him on a dating site...makes me physically sick to my stomach to think of him with someone else. Ugh... that is the WORST thing to have to try and not think about for sure!! How r your children doing with his leaving?

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