Soon to be Alone
My husband has been recently been threatening me with the “D” word for months now. And I don’t want one more then anything in the world. I was diagnosed with Bipolar II back in Sept. and that’s when it all started to roll. I’ve begged for answers, asked what we could do to make things work, but I get the cold shoulder every time. We have 4 kids and he is constantly telling them negative things about me to turn them away from me. I’m breaking and losing control. I have to thought of being alone it scares me so much. And what hurts the most is I’m still madly in love with him
This is a really difficult situation for someone to be in. It sounds though, like he’s not supporting you, or even considering your feelings at all. It’s understandable that you don’t want a divorce, but ask yourself do you really want to be with him, or do you want to be with who he used to be?
@Rachael016
I'm sorry to hear he has been trying to threaten and punish you over something that you didn't choose and is not your fault. Just like any other illness, a mental health condition also needs compassion, support and treatment to get better. Does he realize he is directing his fight against you, instead of fighting on your side against Bipolar II?
I wish I could give you a 🤗. It’s really tough to be in love with someone who doesn’t feel same at the time.
i had breakup with my bf 2019 october due to some misunderstanding..in june 2020 he contacted me to resolve issues said he can not deal with strict rltnshp issues so can we remain committed and be frnds ...i approved we meet roam around city all were good..suddenly in 30 nvmbr he said he said he is a rltnshp with a girl from that day..he told me this in the evening but everything was fine till that..at frst it took it as a joke but latter on december i saw his so called posting something cheesy abt him so then i asked about this..he said he will explain this matter later ..after that i tried to keep a distance from him..last he messaged me on 4th asking about some educational stuffs which i casually replied ...i cant understand whats going on n what is he upto ..few days ago he posted a pic of him wearing my gifted bracelet giving picture credit to his gf...so for now i wanna move on...but still
i have hope he will be back in good terms
