@Myboys hi there! :)
Whats keeping you from moving on.
Hi sorry. I just wanted to break in gently. This might sound stupid to some people but I'm really struggling at the moment over a break up that happened 20 years ago! Basically I was young (21) and madly in love! I wasn't a perfect girlfriend but I probably did take his kindness for granted at the time and didn't appreciate him as much as I should have done until it was too late! He was 30 and from a different country to me but we had about 2 wonderful years together until I found out he was cheating with a girl I knew. He had changed over night. I tried my best to make it work but he kept seeing her and in the end I came home, left the country and never wrnynd never went back. I've never forgotten him and still hurt. I can't help thinking if I had appreciated him more or if I had stayed, maybe it might have worked out. I have a beautiful family but he will always be special to me. How do I forget about it??
@Myboys I would try Grief counseling because that's an awfully long time to hang on to a break up that happened so many years ago Good luck.
Thanks for reply. Yeah I think maybe I have been putting it out of my mind for so long and lately something I learned about him triggered these feelings and I can't get out of it this time. I wish I could contact him to say I'm sorry if I ever hurt him! So ridiculous I know because I never hurt him the way he hurt me. I fought with him like any flighty 21 year old would but he broke my heart
Please free yourself. No reason to blame yourself for someone's cheating. Wish you the best.
Thank you 💌