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Struggling so much

User Profile: Samb5
Samb5 September 23rd, 2019

My partner broke up with me just over 3 weeks ago. We have a 5 year old son and I'm 8 weeks pregnant. I'm so devestated. We had been together 10yrs coming up. There are times where I can't function and all I do is cry. Iv had a few panic attacks. I honestly feel so overwhelmed with heartbreak. I am having to move with my son in about 8 or 9 weeks because of it. I'm so so sad. I feel shit that my son is seeing his mum so sad and up and down and he isn't seeing his dad as much. How do I keep going and getting through each day. How do I accept it and begin to think happier thoughts? I feel like I'm going crazy. I worry he will start sleeping with others etc I'm feeling so down.

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User Profile: Arora35
Arora35 September 26th, 2019

@Samb5

I'm so sorry to hear you are going through this, it must be awful for you. I haven't really got the answers for you because i think times plays a big part in healing, and you'll gather your own thoughts on how to deal with this in a way that works for you. I'd just concentrate on you, your son and your pregnancy, take each hour as it comes and just get through your day however best you can. There is no rule on how to cope, so I wouldn't give yourself a hard time on showing your emotion, your hurting and its acceptable. These times are a test of our strength, and i reckon you have loads of it, but your hurt is overwhelming at the moment, your strength will never leave you, you just might have to soul search to bring it back.

Have you got anyone who can help you?

Stay safe, and be strong

User Profile: humorousDay8793
humorousDay8793 September 26th, 2019

I need to get something off of my chest

DISAPOINTED

The life I am stuck living, I deeply detest

DEPRESSED

I cant stand breathing another F'n breath

DISCOURAGED

I studied for years but I can't pass this test

DEVISTATED

I'm hoping this ends, I welcome my deathh

IN PEACE I NEED REST

@Samb5