Unhappy marriage
i have been experiencing some emotional problems with my marriage. My husband and i have been married for 4 years, when we started our marriage, it was such a rush. We definitely didn’t think through what it like to be married. We also quickly have a baby together in the same year. Now being married for 4 years, I’m unhappy and tired of my marriage.
i think my husband is a child. He never learned from his mistakes. He always created thousands of debts but then i paid for it. It wouldn’t be a problem if he learned and changed but he didn’t. It’s a circle of spending.
everytime we talk, he gets angry. Our relationship becomes so toxic.
we have a kid together and I’m so scared of doing it alone. So i feel like I’m stuck.
@cyanMaple4611,
I don't know how long this has been going on and how severe it is.
But you might want to consider couples therapy. Sometimes you get stuck in a relationship and you are too involved to step out, look at the bigger picture. Be aware and try to really understand your partner. Not as in arguments, you don't have to agree. As long as you understand, listen, listen when someone expresses feelings and don't go like for instance "that is not true, I do respect you". It's not a competition.
A professional couples counselor might help to find out if you guys can (learn to) understand each other (again). Or not.
Take care.
