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I'm going through a breakup for about 3 months with my ex girlfriend, we were in the relationship for a year and a half, but I want to get back with her, I really love her and the connection we had was very strong, we were very close to each other, saw each other everyday. I had caused hurt during the relationship, I realized it only after the breakup, I have learned from it and want to get another chance with her to treat her better, but im not sure if she would take me back. She keeps saying for me to move on and lose hope in getting back with her, but my heart and mind doesn't want to, and everyday multiple times I pray and when I pray I just get more hope that her and I would get back together, im trying to give her space too I did try to win her back with gifts I made to bring back feelings, didnt bombard her with gifts. I feel she still has feelings for me but is being blocked but I really love her and we saw more out of the relationship. I want to make things right with her and have a better relationship and a stronger relationship.
@Jesd001 it is good you are trying and want her back, and the best you have been praying for that.
if may i suggest you to give her space and time to get back to her feelings, as you said you still see she still have feelings, i dont know how long time you gave space before, but you need to give her time to brieve and release the reasons what made you break up at the first place, time and space will make her miss you as well and if she want you back too, space will help her to realize that as well. i know it is not easy to give her space when you need her right back but that might help both of you to get your feeling on track and move further with or without each others in better ways.
i am going to a break up too, i want my ex back and i dont know if he want me back as well, but i still dont want him to contact me because of i am still hurt and what the space to get myself together and clear the negative feeling which lead the breakup. i just wanted to highlight that to explain why space is important to help clear negative feelings.
@kindLemon2749, thanks, I am trying no contact with her, but I do hope giving her space would work this out, for now I'm focusing on myself
@Jesd001 yeah thats really great, make yourself better and the rest will work by itself. and if she does contact you do not ignore.
