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Verge of divorce

User Profile: ashleigh1
ashleigh1 June 9th, 2021

It’s like my husband woke up one day and decided he was going to be mean to me even when I keep to myself. We have a toddler and I’m a stay at home mom and I have no where to go and I don’t know what to do.

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User Profile: Brightlook57
Brightlook57 June 9th, 2021

Sorry to hear that you find yourself in this situation. Stay strong. If you or your toddler are threatened by your husband, call the authorities. The safety of you and your little one is of primary concern. Next, reach out to family or friends to ensure they are aware of your situation and can help out if necessary. If possible, initiate a conversation with your husband to find out what is behind his behavior. If not, there is always a listener or therapist to turn to at 7 Cups. Best of luck.

User Profile: dukeofdearham
dukeofdearham June 10th, 2021

@ashleigh1,

if your husband seems to have turned overnight into someone you don't recognize, then changes are there is something that happened to him/is bothering him/frustrates him. Just based on personal experience (I was the one turning into someone I was not, it damaged my relationship for good). Talk to him. Express how you feel, and stay with yourself. Try to "push his buttons" as in, be nice, be gentle, make him feelm safe to express himself.