Waking to the break up
I wake up every morning knowing we are no longer together breaks me. It’s been 25 morning. When will I be happy again?
@intuitiveShade7505
Hey Shade,
I understand how lonely and tough the heartbreak was on you. Since then you haven't felt happy. I know it won't be easy to get over it. But you need to start healing. You need to grieve. Let all of those emotions out. Bottling them up won't help. It may take days, weeks and even months to feel better. But it the end it will all be worth it. Try to distract yourself by doing something that helps you feel better. I hope you feel better. Please take care of your mental health and stay safe❤️
@intuitiveShade7505
Hi, Shade, it sounds like you're going through a really tough time. Having lost a person, knowing that you'll never be back together with them, must hurt you a lot. I'm sorry that this has happened to you.
It seems like it's still hurting you a lot, and it feels like it's just going to go on forever. But even if it seems impossible, the pain will get better. Maybe you'll always still miss them, but over times, things will get better.
All the best wishes to you
Hi,
I exactly was going through same things. After breaking up with that human, I had lost my complete sense of existence. For 6 months I was in depression. Crying exceedingly 24x7.
it was a roller coaster ride. Its still been.
I have passed 12 months now. And all I can say is, I am much happier. I needed time, time to accept, time to acknowledge, time to suffer.
it’s not easy.
go easy on yourself, eat 100 chocolates if you want to. Stay in bed for a week if you want to. But to whatever you want to do.
more and more power to you. Please take care. I hope you feel better. ❤️
Thank you everyone for the kind words ❤️ . I have survived another day. But still it seems like a never ending journey.
There’s a lot of what if in my head and also fear of making the wrong decision. I’m trying hard to get better, I distract myself with exercise, meeting friends.but it was temporary when I got home and I was back to zero. I feel empty
How do I move on from hoping that he will change and reach out to me ? How can I let my emotion out? I felt the heartache but I couldn’t shed a tear. It’s breaking me
I’m in the same boat, only been 9 days but the mornings are so difficult. 11 days of crying. Any update @intuitiveShade7505? Your post is from 1 month ago. I’m curious if it’s gotten easier yet.
hi @greenAvocado14, I’m sorry you have go through this. It’s been 7 weeks post break up for me. There are days that I feel better but most of the morning I will waking up hoping I will be in his arms. I tried my best making new connection with peoples and working out. Those are the times that I feel happy. But when I’m back to being alone I feel empty again. But I would say I better compare to day 1.
sending you some love from this side of the world.
Thank you @intuitiveShade7505 for the update. Being around people does help, but I agree it’s the mornings and nights when I’m alone with my thoughts that are so hard. Especially because those were the moments always reserved for him. Sending good morning text or talking until I couldn’t keep my eyes open and saying good night. Now those are just empty lonely hours. It’s hard to walk away from someone you still love, but knowing you won’t work out in the long run. I know we aren’t good for each other as a couple, but I miss my friend. We just aren’t able to be friends after being in love with each other. We can’t separate past feelings. Sometimes I wish we had never fallen in love, that we would have just remained friends. I really miss my friend.
I really miss him too. But like what you have said, we are aware that the relationship won’t work. Sometimes love is not enough.
Every cloud has a silver living. It seems tough now but I believe we will find our happiness again.