We have broken up over Ten times and is this the ultimate one?

Hi all! I am here for some advise and to see if anyone else has been in my situation, which I am sure there are people that have or are.

My boyfriend (ex) and I have now broken up for the tenth time or more possibly.

We love each other but when we fight or argue we don't talk about it and we sometimes have silences of upto 1 week. Before he would do it to 'punish' me but now I ignore him back and try to not let it get to me too much, I must say I am becoming immune to it.

We live together and have some problems that have not been solved or communicated about, so they have now got worse and I cannot handle them anymore. They are things that can be sorted if we talk and work together but he cannot communicate and he sees red straight away.

We push each others buttons and I try to ignore it but I cannot anymore. When we are good everything is amazing and we are deeply in love but than one arguement where we disagree or we say the wrong thing then it explodes and becomes silence after a heaving arguement.

Any advise please on what to do? I am currently looking for somewhere else to live as we live together.

The last conversation we had was him saying he does not want me and that the reason why we have never broken up is because I have never left him....bascially saying I trapped him but I have never done anything like that. Thing is we do this everytime and we always get back together.

Now I am thinking I must go. Whether we need space or we need to break up.

I can give more details if needed...

Thanks <3