What should i do?
Me and my bf were together for almost a month, things were going well, and we had sex. 4 days later he told me he's pressurised over work and could not take anymore stress and ask if we could take things chill, maybe be more of sex buddies then progress from there. I suggested to meet up to talk over the weekend he said will let me know on friday but before he gave me the answer, i suggested we take time apart. He replied "maybe we can take a break for awhile? Miss you 🥰". He blocked me on iphone and whatsapp. Leaving telegram messaging unblocked (which is the app we use to communicate). That was the last i heard from him as my subsequent messages were not read.. what should i do? Even if i text him say i wanna end things, he didnt even open the message.. i have trouble moving on and i need advice on this.. :/
@Shinee0525
Thank you for sharing & I am sorry to hear about your breakup. If there is anything you want to say to him I would wrtte him a last text even if you doesn't reply or open it. Along with trying to get your mind off of him (easier said then done)
If you ever need a chat just send me a message!
Yea i will. Thank you 🥺
@Shinee0525
@Shinee0525
In the end - He’s going to do whatever he’s going to do. Which is block you, not open messages, possibly not care at all what happens next. He’s going to feel whatever he’s going to feel about it - probably nothing, he’s probably completely indifferent judging from his behaviour so far). It looks very much like he wanted sex, and when he got that he made excuses to exit the ‘relationship’ after first suggesting FWB.
So that’s why it doesn’t matter if he opens the text or not. Because you have to do this for you, to say everything you need to say. You need to express yourself, and process your feelings in order to have closure. You’re not him, and this obviously has affected you in ways that it’s not affecting him. But that’s why you should do this for yourself only. Focusing on him and what he might do or think or feel, or why he behaved that way, will only hold you back from moving on.
CatsInTheCradle
Thank you. Its really a much needed reminder to self 🥺
@Shinee0525
it seems like he hates you and likes someone else i had the same problem with my bf